I wrote some time ago, on the "sympathy for the antagonist," now, I would write on sympathy for those who desire to arouse the neighborhood. Too often they / the abused and ill-treatment they receive is too often left to die or live with difficulty the plant intimacy.
The affective dimension is left to itself, as well as the intellectual dimension, there is no coordination between them, only fragmentation, and thus can not integrate, collaborate and create attitudes to mature, balanced in the sense of harmony between opposing tendencies.
There was also those who have made successful by saying, "Go where your heart takes you."! I've seen and I see too many people end up in the pit of depression due to this simplistic advice. A society suffers from intellectual arrogance as well as from sentimentality, that's the problem here is that I agree with the diagnosis. So what?
Sentimentality, yes, no ability to deal with the feelings with respect and caution, and those of his / lle other s Sentimentality like the one that coined the phrase that happened. It is said that our society needs "education to the feelings," I agree, but I think we should add that it needs, the same time, to clarify the affective illness called "sentimentality," so widespread as to be difficult to focus.
Sentimentality is a dramatization of affect and intellectualization, as when, instead of staying in and feel the vulnerability that this position entails, you enter the "role" of those who love or who have you been injured / a great Using big words and lofty tone and gestures. Along with the refusal of contact with their feelings and devaluation, we are faced with the two most common expressions of emotional immaturity.
Back to the opening theme, to elicit sympathy for those who desire for closeness. When we live in moments of emotional intimacy and / or physical with someone, we are not educated / and constructively manage these experiences so powerful, and fear that drives us to provoke and immature behavior detrimental to the construction and development of a relationship alive and creative.
We are not educated / and why our society lacks a common frame of understanding covering the complexity of experience. We will not grow / and in the sense of mystery and wonder at the richness of the experience of interweaving between existential-lived complementary opposites.
"Reason" and "Love" are the two idols of the West, apparently opponents, in reality, they are two faces the same decay, the simplification heralded with arrogance, as if they were achievements with respect to the supposed backwardness of other world views and life.
should be distributed by the fear that causes us emotional intimacy and / or with another person not only physical, but also with ourselves / e. Enter deeply in touch with ourselves / and require tools and strength. The more we can be deeply in touch with ourselves / and, the more we can be with another person. Accommodate our mystery, from which emerge sensations and feelings, words and scenarios, we can accept others / a. But it takes someone who guidi.LG 04/12/2009
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